Dear Paul:

You went into body building so to be able to  protect yourself against the  bullying you suffered from in school, so to get physically strong and capable. Unfortunately, reads like you were  bullied by the mother of your twin daughters, a different kind of bullying. You lost precious bonding time with them and the final blow, the one  you didn’t detail, that brought about the five year depression. You turned to the courts, social services, the police, you did your best but you lost the battle, lost the girls, at   this point.

I think that I have a deeper understanding of your sadness. It  is more difficult to accept such a loss, isn’t it. And it  was traumatic for you to be mistreated that way by the mother of your girls, what a shame. Why was or is she so angry at  you, so hateful?

anita