Dear Jenny Lynn:

Care first and foremost about showing up to work  on time, rested  and refreshed, do a good job, learn so to do an even better job next, aim at a lifetime career, care for that paycheck, for saving money and  making a better life for yourself. Care about being an ethical worker, an ethical person (do-n0-harm), and as a secondary part  to your life, aim at friendships and a love relationship. Make the  first a necessity, the highest  priority and the second a second priority, a plus, not a necessity. I think this attitude and focus will work best for you.

anita