Dear Eli:

Freedom is important to you, to have alone time, to be say and do what you want to say,  without limits, to not owe anyone explanations, to not have to convince anyone of anything, to … not have to get permission from others, I suppose. To “control my own life only”-

I can relate. It feels like a trap to be stuck all the time with a person, to be imprisoned in many ways, imprisoned by what-will-people-think and having to get permission to live your life as you need your life to be.

Freedom is a good thing, necessary, really, for one’s emotional well being.

anita