Dear Eli:

Like I shared with you before, I finally ended all contact with my mother. I was a child when I first wanted to have nothing to do with her. Then when I was thirty, I wrote her a letter regarding taking a break from contact with her. It was only twenty years after that letter that I finally end contact with her.  I never imagined it was possible for me, the guilty feelings were too intense.

If only I did this thirty years ago, my life would have been so much better. I could have saved myself a lot of misery and started healing way earlier than I did.

What do you think about ending contact with your mother, is it something you wanted before, something you wished for?

anita