Dear Amanda M:

You and Pat were involved in Matt’s dating life before Matt and  Cassie started dating. “He (Matt) would  bring these  girls to weekend visits (at the home you shared with Pat). It was  an innocent game”. At  one point while  spending an evening  out with Cassie for her birthday, you told  her  about Matt’s rude girlfriend at the time, one  of  the women that spend those weekend visits with Matt at your  home.

Then Cassie and Matt dated. Maybe the trouble is that when Cassie sees you and Pat, she thinks of all of Matt’s prior girlfriends. You, Pat, your home may all be tainted with those thoughts of her boyfriend with other women.

And then, she may have expressed this distress to Matt, and  he is on her side now, that is, not on the  side  of you/Pat/those weekend visits with the other women.

Could this be the problem?

anita