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Can you give me any recommendations? I feel like I had lost my ”juice” once I graduated. I didn’t have a plan throughout college because I didn’t know what to study, so I settled for history. Now, I don’t have ANY relevant experience to put on my resume and I’ve been stuck at home for the past 7 months; but I don’t want to get a job that I’m gonna have to settle for like I did with my major; and I CERTAINLY don’t want a job that’s gonna bore the crap outta me. But nobody will hire me, I’m injured so i can’t exercise, I’m getting fat again, I don’t get out and see things, I didn’t make friends in college, I still have yet to even KISS a woman, and I’m supposed to just think “Hey, it’s normal for entry level jobs to require 2 years of experience, and you’ll find a woman, Ramsey; don’t worry; just keep looking up and things will eventually look up with you!”, but I’ve been staring too long at the sky; my head’s in the clouds and I’ve been blinded by the sun, so I’ve lost sight of myself, my purpose, and everything that’s made me me over the course of my life thus far and the last thing I wanna do is confine myself to a lifetime of working as someone else’s “employee” so I can maintain the rest of this oh-so-wonderful life that I didn’t ask for but am REQUIRED to be happy and grateful for, regardless of whether I had any say in the matter. Do I want to keep thinking like this, no… but I’ve never been one to think positively about myself so I don’t know how to not think so pessimistically.