Dear  ImJWL:

You are welcome. Having read what you shared, your guilt doesn’t seem justified to me. But we do often feel guilty when we do no  wrong, unfortunately  for us.

Regarding the guy you are currently seeing, do you mean the guy that you “hooked up on the second date.. and even slept over.. and it seems like he has lost touch since the sex”?

If this is the guy you are referring to, what do you mean by “lost touch”, and if he no longer contacts you, and the very short relationship is over (before it began, really), what is the point  of contacting him to tell him that you are legally married?

* I will  soon be away from the computer for about sixteen hours. I will check for your answer in the next ten minutes  or so. If you answer later, I will read and reply to you again when I am back.

anita