Hi Mark,

This is all true except for the girlfriend who is not part of the group. She lives in another country but they visit each other (as I understand it). So yeah, it is hard to move on, I feel like I need to recreate my social life in so many ways.  I always feel uncomfortable when he’s around in common circles but now I also have to fear that she’s going to appear somewhere with him as well. I don’t think he understands the kind of domino effect he’s created. I’m the one that has to change my life on so many levels, whilst he just lives on.