Dear Giovanni:

You wrote: “she told me that she ‘doesn’t care about anything anymore… I know she loves me”-

-she told you that she doesn’t care about anything anymore, that means, she doesn’t care for you  either. Not presently, not currently.

“I feel like I’m talking to a shell of herself; that the real girl, the one I’ve known for so long, is somewhere inside of her trapped. I just want to bring her out again”.

So many people, men and women, live every day, with a real boy or girl trapped in there. Is this girl trapped in your girlfriend worth fighting for (“should I fight for her..?”, you asked previously)- yes, she is worth fighting for. Unfortunately, too often, we, the people who care about that child trapped, do  not have access to the battle zone.

Meaning, if she doesn’t let you into the war zone, you have nowhere and no way to fight for that trapped girl.

You can’t fight for her if she doesn’t want you  to. Therefore, make sure she wants you to fight for her, ask her if she wants you to fight for her and how-

and let me know her answer, will you?

anita