Dear Serife:

You are welcome. Here are my thoughts regarding your original post:

“He (Ted) looked me up and down so basically checked me out… I kept looking at him  to see if he was still looking at me and he WAS”-

-let’s say he did look at you up and down and for some time because he liked the way you look. But it doesn’t mean he liked who you are as a person, only the way you look. Also, teenage boys and men like to look at women they consider to be good looking, they look at a lot of women, every day. This means that you are likely one of many girls and women that he looks at every day or every week.

“his Friend (boy) was like if I had a friend who liked you what would you do I asked who it was and he said it was TED but afterwards said it was a joke”- if Ted is not shy, if he normally does approach girls he likes, he wouldn’t need to tell a friend to tell the girl he likes her.

Maybe the friend meant that he himself likes you. Maybe he referred to Ted because girls find Ted because he knew you like Ted or that he knows lots of girls like Ted.

“Also his friends had a speaker.. he sang them to me from a distance like full eye contact”- I learned this some time ago: I was in an audience while a speaker was on stage, looking at the audience, in my direction. It looked to me as if he was looking straight at me, individually. What I found out later was that to the person to my left,  to my right, in front and in back of me, to all four (and to others next to them) it looks like the speaker is looking straight at them, individually.

It is similar to watching a person on TV, if the person on TV looks at the camera, to every person watching the TV, it looks like the actor is looking at them directly, individually.

“my friend (a girl) said that he called me cute but does NOT like me.. and she knows I like him”- reads to me that she talks to you about Ted because she knows that you like him.

In your last post you wrote: “I just want to ask if you have any suggestions on letting him know I like him without having to directly tell him?”-

my answer will depend on what you want from Ted. You wrote in your original post: “I really. Want. Him”-

-want what is my question?

anita