Dear Jennifer:

You restated the two occasions very clearly, I am impressed.

Regarding the Halloween party, you broke your word to her to attend the party because you felt like going on the free trip. Regarding her birthday party, you didn’t feel like attending it at all (“Since the beginning, I didn’t really feel like going”)-

I am wondering if you don’t like being in her home, maybe you don’t like your best friend’s company in the context of a party in her home, or maybe you don’t like her much in any context?

anita