Dear Hella:

Your drawing then? Quite skillful, I think.

It is tough to be conflicted. I lived conflicted for the longest time and it was very distressing, day after day, year after year. I think that if you saw him the way he is, you wouldn’t be conflicted. It is when we insert our own hopes and expectations into a person and those hopes and expectations stay there, attached to that person, that we get and remain confused, or conflicted.

anita