Dear Nichole:

Wait, there is a covert narcissist online label and an overt narcissist, as in a covert-narc and an overt-narc? So that truly covers everyone, my goodness!

“my ex meets all the ‘criteria’ of a covert narcissist. He was amazing to me for years” – so a covert narcissist can be amazing for years before his narcissism begins to show?

If you want to list the criteria you referred to, not in the online language, but using your  own words, choosing simple, straightforward words and sentences, please do. I would like to know.

If you list those for me, will you write for each one when that criteria began to show, that is, how long before you left Florida?

At this point I forgot what you shared about him except that he cheated on you a lot. If you make this list next, I will re-read all that you shared about him and reply.

I will soon be away from the computer for about thirteen hours. Take care of yourself, Nichole, will you?

anita