Dear coconut:

“if I say I want to try to cook something he’s like ‘what’s plan b?? I don’t want to die”-

– in this communication, you offered him a gift of love, to cook something he likes. His response: you are a bad cook and your cooking will kill me!

That is very rude.

“Can’t you see how fat you are? how much are you gonna eat??”, he said to his  mother. Again, very rude. When you hear that you know that if you gain weight, he will say the same thing to you.

You wrote: “I like that he doesn’t take things so seriously and he really does get upset if I make a mean joke”- what mean or rude jokes do you make?

anita