I completely understand that. Just wish this could be easier. And this whole situation just sucks. I am trying to make the best of it for my son because he is the only thing that matters in this situation. My ex and I see eye to eye in how we want to raise him. We agree on a lot of things. Except this whole situation. He sent me a message yesterday saying I am trying to tear his relationship apart. That is the last thing I would do. Although it is a constant reminder of betrayl and disrespect he is happy. I do not wish to do that. I just want the whole situation to be more comfortable for all parties involved. I tried telling him that. He just don’t want to hear it. I haven’t messaged her like I wanted too. I have respected his choices. I am just over it. As long as my son is happy that is all that matters. I just wanted to give him a family that can still have family days and have somewhat of a whole family. My parents are divorced and i watched it turned ugly. That is my biggest fear him to go through what i went through!