Dear Christine:

You are welcome. He may very well be an honest man and I hope he is.

But what is definitely true is that statistically when you know a man for only three weeks and then the relationship goes long distance, the chances are low, that the relationship will survive and continuing to grow stronger through the physical distance.

It is possible but unlikely. I suggest you do talk to him more, ask him questions, listen to his answers (not too many questions all at once of course, and not in an emotionally charged tone of voice). Then figure out what to do. You can post about his answers here if you want my input.

Be aware of the chances I mentioned, limit your wishing-and-hoping and  adjust your expectations best you can to reality.

anita