Dear Kylee:

You are welcome. Let’s look at his behavior and what he told you: “When he was with me hanging out he always was on his cell phone…he also on the very first date brought up his ex girlfriends. I didn’t ask he just told me… he wasn’t .. present with me… he explained that his ex reaches out to him.. in hopes he will want to be with her… But then I saw he liked his ex photo on Instagram.. He always introduced me as his girlfriend but he never asked me (to be his girlfriend)… he told me.. he tries not to get attached because he wants to focus on future”.

I don’t think you made a mistake ending the relationship. Here are two good reasons:

1. He told you that an ex girlfriend wants to get back together with him and then he liked his photo. So… he is encouraging an ex girlfriend to get back together with him .. while having an intimate relationship with you.

2. He told yo that “he tries not to get attached because he wants to focus on future”, meaning he doesn’t see you in his future, so he doesn’t want to get attached to someone he figures will be in his past.

I understand that you feel hurt and I do hope you feel better soon. You did the right thing ending this relationship because you did want an honest man, a loyal man, and one who sees you in his future.

anita