Here’s what the friend did:
we were out at a bar. it was her idea to invite my friends because she had invited hers.
She and I were dancing. My friend, who by the way is no longer my friend, ended up meeting up with a girl he had been dating.
My girl asked them to come out and dance with us. My “friend” gave her the finger. My back was turned to him so I didn’t see it.
But when I found out, I told him to apologize or leave. He chose to leave.
He probably thought he was being funny. But he shouldn’t have done that to someone he just met.
Also, she says she saw my eyes wonder over to her phone a few times while she was texting when we were in the car.
She had told me that an ex boyfriend of hers occasionally texted her. I wasn’t cool with that but I never said “you can’t talk to him.” I’m just not like that. But I never picked up her phone and looked through the messages.
Is that unreasonable?
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