Hi Anita,

You are right . We’re both ill and need to heal and I can’t do it if I’m with him . It’s a tragedy as we started out wanting to be the best we could be for each other and ended up tearing each other apart .

Valora, I forgive him and I am slowly beginning to forgive myself .

I don’t think I’ll send an email as I started it bit it got too long . I will just text him a few words…maybe something like . Thank you I’m sorry goodbye I forgive you .

Thank you all for your kind and honest replies, I truly appreciate it.

Lola