Juli and Inky thank you for your opinions yes you are both right

juli he is not married we are young bit the problem is in him he don’t have a job and he is not sure that he can be in a relationship that can last but before i write my problem here me and him were talking at messenger about his goals next year (we wasn’t talking about our relationship at all and he said when he will get a job he will visit me and he didn’t change his mind about seeing me and he said ”when we see each other we will talk more and more” and he repeated it

i don’t know what does he mean by that and i didn’t want to ask him.

but anyway i send him a message in whatsup i told him that we need to stay friends.. set limits.. talk one once a day and i’m waiting for him to see this message because he is in military and he only can open messenger

add to that next week i will join an organization and i want to start volunteering so i’m just trying to do things i love and meet new people

thank you guys and wish me luck