Hi anita and pink,

Apologies for the delayed response. Thank you so much for your suggestions and taking the time to reply to my post.

@anita, that’s a very interesting way to look at the situation through the lens of legacy. I very much appreciate your perspective. He is a bit stubborn when it comes to making decisions like moving to a better house or availing healthcare as he associates a great deal of self-worth with being independent, but I will try my best to ensure he has everything he needs. At the same time, I am mindful about not imposing my decisions on him.

@pink, thanks can’t agree more with your statement about good fathers, and also your thought about focusing on spending time with him versus saving him.

Love and light,

singlechild