Dear blkhwkdwn1:

Thank you for being socially responsible regarding this pandemic, and otherwise.

My suggestion: When you are relaxed (or exhausted from being upset), put together a message to send her. Write in it what it is that you want from her, Not in general vague terms, but quite specifically. Then send this message (first draft) to me, I may give you some editing suggestions, and when you are okay with the message, send it to her. What do you think?

anita