Dear Sanita:

If I understand correctly he is not living with the woman he is legally married to, and he and his child have been living together for 8 years. If this is the case, I would think that a conscientious court of family law will not separate a child from his father and have the child live with a woman who is a stranger to the child.

What do you think?

I hope he sees a competent attorney so to understand his situation better. Maybe he already did (?)

If there really is a danger for his 10 year old to be separated from his father because of this woman’s anger regarding him divorcing her, then he shouldn’t divorce her before his child turns 18 or so and is legally free to choose where he/she wants to live. Do you agree or disagree?

anita