Dear Anita:

He knows that if I am considering moving to LA but it wouldn’t be until I get a job. So we wouldn’t be going down at the same time. He also knows that I have a friend that lives in LA that wanted to come live with me. So the plan before the breakup was, to be long distance and head down to LA after he had moved there and we would be living separately. So maybe he feels like I was basing my decision to come down on him when really it was my own choosing to look for jobs in LA. I’m not sure it’s interesting though. He did not mention anything about the move to LA when we broke up but we really didn’t get into the deeper problems for what was causing the breakup during that time so it’s possible. I don’t think I am really trying to contact him to necessarily try to get back together right away, just to establish that there is still something there between us and we could have worked through it instead of breaking up. That way even if we don’t decide to stay together, there’s a possibility in LA. Let me know what you think.

Thank you!