Dear Ana:

“Trauma in childhood has made me hypersensitive/ hypervigilant to others’ intentions and needs, filled with self doubt, self criticism and judgment… I am 39 and supposed to have it together”- we have a lot in common, except that I am not 39. I am older, but at 39 I didn’t have it together either, far from it.

I read your original post, but there is so much in it, that I will need to re-read it thoroughly when I am rested, which will be tomorrow morning, in about 17 hours from now. Feel free to add anything you want to add- I will read it all and reply when I am back.

anita