Dear Sarasa:

You are welcome. I understand it feeling terrible, I know the feeling, and it is pretty bad. But if you can, think the following: it feels terrible, but realistically, your life situation is not terrible- it is the same as it was before the farewell message: you live in the same place, with the same people, having the same life practically as before.

The point in you ending contact with him is to stand up for you, for what you want/ don’t want in life: you don’t want to be a safety net for a man who is pursuing another woman!

anita