I guess this is mainly because all my issues that I never acknowledged affected my personality. He felt that our personalities didn’t mesh. I finally realized I haven’t been myself in awhile. I guess I would like him to shut the door because if he doesn’t partially feel the same way or feel like there is a way to make it better then I need to hear that and give up hope. If I didn’t have these issues going on I would have said fine, done, do what you want. The definite no would tell me to just give up all hope.