Hi Teak, your description of him is hilarious 😆 haa ..it might be a mask . Who can behave like a robot every single day without emotions.  I always wondered why is he single still .. he matches all society standards and seems to be a good catch.. well settled, good looking,  polite, decent and extremely charming personality. As far I remember our earlier conversations, most women before me ..tagged along with him until they understood he is not ready to commit or marry and few of them kept in touch with him even after their marriage.  It only means he has kept his mask all through.