I think I will just wait a couple of weeks to show I have let this go and have given up desiring any kind of closure and then write a carefully crafted letter for my abuser and for his father and then wash my hands of all of this and move on with my life and leave all this in the past.

My friend told me to give him the letters and won’t tell me what they will do with the letters, but I kind of think he will end up sending them to them. He has told me he wants me to have a voice in a way that keeps me safe and that if anyone were to question them they would make sure people knew i had nothing to do with it.

Anyway even if I sent them a letter myself I dont think it is grounds for further legal trouble especially if im saying i want no more contact and am moving on with my life and just wanted to have a voice and give myself closure. And i dont think they will retaliate because they know i have evidence now that can get their son in trouble and am far enough away from the abuse to truly stand up for myself should they try.

And god if your the kind of person that would read all this and hear the victim say they just want to forgive and have a voice and have closure and move on and be done with this and still try to hurt them then youre a truly evil person and i dont think thats true. esp of his father.