Dear Rosie:

I noticed that you are a woman of few words. Your posts are short, two of your replies are one-liners. You don’t elaborate or provide details. For example, in your original post, you wrote: “all I really want is to have a family, something that I never really felt like I had” –

– this is a profound sentence and I wonder what you mean by never having had a family. Elaborating on this sentence can explain a lot of things.

In your original post, you also mentioned a 3-year relationship, a live-in situation, but no details.

It may be that you are cautious about sharing much on a public forum and it may be that you are too cautious in regard to conversations in real-life as well, including when dating, and that excessive cautiousness/ emotional inhibition in conversations hinders your search for a life partner and co-founder of your family.

In your most recent post, you wrote: “It’s hard for me to find someone that can hold an actual conversation with me” – if you so choose, you are welcome to elaborate on the nature of your conversations with potential life- partners/ candidates for the position.

anita