Ok 1 final thing…i got friend dumped from someone I have known nearly 20 years via a text message. I requested her call me and talk about this but when I called her she blocked me after, then apparently unblocked me. I know she blocked me because the text did not say delivered, it was blank under, then my goodbye message an hour later I said goodbye forever and blocked her but she unblocked me for that message.

I don’t even get a courtesy of a hard phone call to end things after everything. Even I did hard phone calls…nearly 20 years and all I get is a “I can’t commit to this friendship anymore” and blocked after I tried calling her. Was I that toxic to her or was she just that upset?