Thank you, Roberta for your kind words. Me and my ex partner have had conversations about couples therapy and we have our first session this Thursday. We are both currently in individual therapy; he has a lot of work to do before I’m ready to commit to anything remotely close to what we had. I am healing in my own therapy as a singular person and so far it’s been quite enlightening. We both are currently referring to this period of separateness as a break from each other to come back into ourselves. We’re letting the future be the future and not assigning any goal posts for when we need to be better or be anything other than separate. So far it’s difficult but I think this is the path I want to take to heal myself first, so I can be a better judge for myself in the future.