THANK YOU SO MUCH! This makes so much sense and It explains why I feel like not being with her even though I want to be with her. Im still on a break with her and I don’t really know if I should stop the break or wait it out so I don’t fall into the same pit with texting her so much that I don’t enjoy time with my friends. I also want to ask you if the feeling of not being in love with her could be caused because I don’t want to go up to the mountain again and that I unknowingly tell myself that I’m not in love with her so I’m more likely to not go back onto the mountain?