Hi Helcat,

You said
There is nothing wrong with dating short-term if you communicate that it is your intention from the beginning.
Okay, that’s something I need to understand properly. The people I’m around see it as a bad thing and are suggesting that I should find true love or a soulmate, as if it’s that easy.

Porn is not the same as sex.
I know, but I think sexting has made it seem more realistic for me. To be honest, I don’t even like the idea of condoms right now because I’m more into oral things. Giving and receiving both. But yes, safe sex is important, so I’ll definitely be aware.

I have a question: In the future, when you are ready to settle down, would you consider marrying someone from these races? If not, you might be treating them like pornography.
Obviously, yes! That’s the reason I want to explore. If I feel like this is the woman I want to spend my life with, then I would consider it. The thing is, I haven’t spent time with any of them in person yet, but I think I can figure out what I want after spending time with them. For example my generalized observation might be that an Asian woman would be more polite and into family values, while a Latina woman would be quite expressive etc.
I know I’m running for the best possible one. But is that wrong?

Also, thanks a lot for sharing useful tips. I do I think those will be helpful when I lose my virginity soon (hopefully). I’m already thinking about starting to use dating apps. Enough virtual illusion.