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  • #56770
    Ella
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    Hi there,

    I am seeking some advice on a situation between my boyfriends friend and myself. The three of us went to school together years ago and were all pretty friendly. Around 4 years ago I had a party and I had lost touch with my now boyfriend but was still in touch with the friend in question so he attended the party. Now he has always been known to have liked female attention so he purposely missed the last train home suggesting he could crash in my bed. This coincided with my grandma being taken to hospital so everyone ended up leaving anyway. Thing is now im with my boyfriend this friend still hasn’t forgiven me and even when I try to make an effort he gives nothing back. Surely a night like that would’ve been forgotten about by now? I don’t want my boyfriend to have to choose as he has been friends with this friend for a long time. How can I resolve this?

    #56771
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Are you sure you can even call that a friend – friends or even normal humans, 10 year olds have the maturity to understand why they couldnt crash on your bed one night – your grandma was taken to the hospital that night for Chrissake! Why are you trying to make an effort to please this immature idiot again?

    And yes, sometimes our boyfriend’s friends dont like us anyway and that doesnt mean we have to bend over like crazy whenever needed just to maintain peace – live with your differences but i doubt his behavior that time was acceptable either. Does your boyfriend know of his friend’s attitude that night?

    As for being a propeller of conflict, my dear, your bf is a grown man (assuming) and he will have the sense to tackle things accordingly. Seriously, why are you thinking this much over someone else’s immaturity? Friends do not behave the way he did.

    #57536
    Ella
    Participant

    Thanks for the advice! I never really considered that trying to please this friend would have a negative effect on myself thus in turn my boyfriend.

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