Hi Solanya, (Lovely name by the way)

I feel your dilemma- handcuffed to the help desk. I’ve been trying the same things, focusing on my spiritual goals. I really need to develop a daily yoga practice and stick to it, but this is difficult and I often lack the motivation.
I am excited to tell you that just this week my partner has secured a part-time position in his field.HOORAY! I hope you don’t think I am bragging, I’m only trying to show that it will happen for him. I won’t lecture you on being patience, because I despised when others said such things- but I do firmly believe that your boyfriend will get a job. A good way to deal with things I’ve found is to remember that they are temporary- nothing lasts forever, not even suffering. Thank you for reaching out to me. It makes it easier to weather the storm, when you have friend to hold your hand. 🙂