Hi Lizzie,
even if you were wanting to have a child it can be nerve wracking thinking it is time for it to happen for real! Cut yourself some slack, there is no need to decide right this minute. Perhaps you could make some time to sit down with your partner and discuss the matter, and be open and honest? He may just be thinking this is what you both agreed? Any baby deserves to be born to two parents who really want him or her, so take your time and if necessary put your decision on the back burner for a while, and maybe once the pressure is off you will really be able to feel what you want, and do the right thing? You are not being unreasonable at all, we all say we want to do things or discuss our dreams, but it doesn’t often happen that way. Just remember that what you said or thought was not set in stone and you are more than able to re-consider, alter, delay, or change your dreams. If your partner truly loves you they will not want you to do anything that you are not yet comfortable with. Allow yourself time and space, and when you are ready to decide one way or another you will know, in the meantime……….communicate, communicate, communicate!!!!
Follow your dreams
Sarah Jane 🙂