Hey Jasmine,
I am letting it be. I sent that text and if it kills off anything that could happen, so be it. I’m not being sarcastic but it isn’t like the movies when it comes to real relationships. Sometimes, I think you have to work at it a little more when things have happened to you, that make you more cautious.
I think I will stay in contact for her for now. We have a date this last Friday. She was hurt by her ex, and she finally told me it wasn’t easy for the first while, but she came through fairly well. When our date was done, we had a long embrace and she feels something for me. She isn’t flighty and overwrought with emotion. She told me she wants to take things slow. I’m putting some effort in, I know that, but don’t some women still want to be wooed?

The feelings for the other woman are already dissolved. I thought about how she came on strong and after 3 dates ended it because there wasn’t an instant spark. I should have thought about how a bunch of her favourite shows were different versions of The Bachelor.

Maybe this woman that I messaged today really wants to see what happens in time. She is very grounded, and down to earth, and her thinking is reality based. Time will tell.