Hey Lucy,

It’s fantastic that you believe in self love, confidence and passion. It’s mature to understand that a relationship should not fill a void. 🙂 Consider this. To love yourself means that you can love ALL of yourself. Love and accept that you may feel insecure at times, that you may “act strange” at times. Consider that its absolutely fine to want to be physically desired. Love that part of yourself as well. Accept this part of yourself. You may not currently have a guy that makes you feel desired, but its just fine to have part of you want that. This does not necessarily mean you are narcissistic. But there is simply a part of you that feels that way from time to time. Consider loving and accepting this part of you just the way you are. When I look at my gal, I see the most beautiful woman alive. She is perfect and I desire nothing else. Yes she gets acne too:) But I see absolute beauty. I see beauty because I love her and I accept her even with her “flaws”. Until you find the right guy, consider loving yourself in this way. Consider that you are one of a kind, that you are a masterpiece and that you are perfect just as you are. Love your beauty, your brains, your “flaws”. Love it all. If you love yourself this way, others will follow. 🙂

Peace to you.