Hi Nina,

It’s Elle under a new username since I couldn’t remember my password on the other account, my apologies for any confusion. Anyway, I would confront this person by asking them if you could meet for coffee somewhere at a public place or you can have a counselor contact her and you can all meet in your counselors office and talk it out there too. Obviously you two are grown adults and I’m sure you and her can sit down and have a very calm & loving discussion. Control your feelings of not trying to get angry, be as calm as you can and I believe you will be pleasantly surprised by her reaction. People react very positively & calmly towards behaviors as what I mentioned above. Since so many years have gone by, I wouldn’t expect denial from her, more than likely, you will be received with love & understanding and she will admit her faults and deny anything to you. I’m sure she wants to hear how you feel from your own voice. Moving on is ok but it’s not healthy to avoid something that you obviously really care about since you were brave to post about her. I admire you for writing this and allowing us to help you. I send you lots of love & hugs…! Xoxo