First thing…..don’t panic! Even for the young capacity can go up and down. low libido means low interest and I am not sure if that’s wht you really meant. the fact that sometimes you don’t immediately spring to attention means absolutely nothing. Different people need more or less to become aroused. If your partner is not comfortable doing what you need her to do to become physically aroused, do not be embarrassed to help yourself a little. It will not bother her in the least.

Now take a deep breath and next time…..just enjoy.