DearJ:
How are you doing with the issue on your post here? You wrote last that you feel uncomfortable with confrontations. I wonder if you confronted your friend or your brother? It is painful, unpleasant, uncomfortable, distressing for me to confront or do anything I may be attacked for doing, criticized, rejected… I read that to get better, to heal, it is like going to the dentist. It is going to be painful but it is very likely to save a lot of long term, future pain. Like growing pains… necessary for growth, for healing. What do you think?
Take Care of yourself:
anita