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  • May 21, 2015 at 10:54 am #77067
    Bluelagoon
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    Hello,
    I’ve been single for 3 years and my previous bf wasn’t what i would call the love of my life. But since i developed such a weird attachement to people. In fact, I can’t help myself seeing every guy i meet as a potential boyfriend, even if i barely know him or if he’s not necessarily my type of guy. How can i keep myself from doing that, because It’s really devastating me, especially if i happen to know that the guy already has a girlfriend or doesn’t show interest in me! I really don’t know why i get too attached to people!
    HELP !

    May 21, 2015 at 12:25 pm #77074
    Anonymous
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    Dear Bluelagoon:
    Seems to me that you are hungry for connection, for intimacy, for love- a biological drive. Why so hungry? Because you are missing it- really needing connection and not having it. How long have you been without connection? People without connection in childhood, without connection to at least one caretaker- are often left hungry, or thirsty throughout life until and if they co-create a relationship with satisfying kind of a connection. What do you think?
    anita

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