Hey dear Blessing
Sorry for such a big post and sorry for confusion. Yeah I meant the same, that I am tired of thinking minute things, Life is quite bigger than all this. And hopefully I will be successfully be able to re-wire my brain. Love, kindness and patience can let you win anything I believe. So keeping that in my mind, and with the E.A.R. concept. I am practicing to be calm and polite.
Oh yeah my husband is a chef too. I good at Indian food and he is good at Italian Food.
Oh I can understand, its really challenging to deal with. Oh my God, its a task almost. But I am happy that you are in good terms with your husband now. Relationships are our life lines. And yes I totally agree with you on this, that Communication has to be really well between the two…. Just the way of communicating things can save alot and can destroy alot.
Thanks for being there Anita.

You are a gem.
Take care and sleep well
Good night.