Hi Anita,
I’m having this fear in my heart that I am no longer deserving to be loved since I have already given the most valuable thing I was supposed to give to the right man and that is my virginity. I am afraid that he will leave me once he knew that I am no longer a virgin and that the wrong guy has taken it away from me. I’m afraid that he might look down on me.

I know it sounds silly but I belong in a society where sex is of high value and that it should only be taken by your future husband.

How could I convince myself that I am still worthy of being loved?
It keeps haunting me until now.