Dear Matic:

Glad you posted an update. I was thinking as I read it that the decent, capable woman that will be involved with you in the future will be fortunate because of your insight and depth- qualities I very much appreciate, your motivation to find out more, to dig under the surface, to look for the real essence of things and people. Now, i would appreciate these qualities. Some women wouldn’t as their values are different. And I suppose it is about getting involved with a woman who is motivated by the same things as you do.

This woman you are writing about, I get more of a feel that she dived into intimacy as in a binge- as in all-you-can eat affair in a restaurant, enjoyed it and now she is in her… food-restricting phase. I am substituting food for love, of course. Binge- restriction-binge-restriction. And in the binge phase I don’t know how selective she is about the food she eats/ the man she is involved with. Something triggered her, something- she liked. But that was not a deep kind of a relationship, it was a binge, is my understanding.

Now, you are a quality young man, Matic, deserving of a fine dining experience, not being someone all-you-can-eat limited-time buffet…!

anita