Dear Red Car:

Thank you for your comment on my thread. Regarding this guy, your thoughts that are telling you that you scared him away, these thoughts may be wrong. Often our thoughts really are wrong.

Why don’t you ask him if you scared him away? why don’t you tell him you like him and that you are scared that you over shared and that you scared him away. And ASK him. If he is the great guy you think he is, then he will honestly answer you.

Often people think this relationship thing is a mystery, or like a complicated chess game with right and wrong moves. Maybe it can be much simpler if you honestly tell him what you think and ask him what he thinks. Instead of guessing, ask; instead of torturing yourself with regrets, tell him… and ask.

This can be a life changer for you, this change in operation here…

Try it?

anita