Dear Arran:

I would like to understand your struggle better. I wrote “your struggle”- this is how I see you, struggling, and yet you wrote: “Not having to struggle in life has made me lazy, which I hate.”

You did not struggle in life to get food on the table, and pay the bills you mean?

Here is a question: how did you struggle as a child to win the approval of your patent/ parents?

I am asking this so to gain insight into you, hoping to be of some help to you, and in so being, to your wife and most importantly, to your kids. If you are willing we can communicate until insight is gained.

anita