Wow,I really get that. I would always burden my boyfriend with what was bothering me because he is so supportive and easy to talk to. I guess I treated him like my best friend but also by doing this he felt I was making it his fault. Makes so much sense.I also expressed to him every detail of every awkward situation so therefore when I made the effort in situations he felt I wasn’t truelly happy,always uncomfortable etc etc. I see now I didn’t need to share EVERY detail with him.
Can I ask though,Anita, when you are overcome with these feelings of anger how do you diffuse the situation..do you walk away? Pretend all is okay with you ( but wouldn’t your husband tell you aren’t being truthful)?How do you deal with at that exact moment? I hope you get what I mean? Xx