Hi Anita,

I think he needs to get through his issue first and realise it is him and not me, unless he realise this then there is no point.
I have thought of leaving and ending the marriage as it has been going on for a few years now and I feel that he will never change and it is time to accept that we are at stalemate and leave as as per my other posts, he thinks it is acceptable to go out once in every often drinking till 3am in the morning and I will never accept that as that is not what I want in my life long partner and the father of my children, so if he is not willing to let this issue go then I will end the marriage as I will not accept that in my life